Are You Too Focused on an Outcome?

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One of the hardest things to do after getting a reading is maintaining a present state. This is especially true in relationship readings which I will touch on today. It’s not easy to keep yourself in the now and continue to go with the flow. It’s challenging to let things remain natural and organic. Too often, people attach themselves to an outcome and develop expectations. I get why, if you are told something is going to happen, you expect that to happen; however, placing too much emphasis on this can actually work against you. Not only will you miss out on a lot of life experiences, doing so can also change your outward behavior and create unexpected problems in your connection—especially if you start obsessing over it.

For example, if you are told something is likely to work out in your favor, that doesn’t mean you should try to force it to happen. It doesn’t mean you should change who you are or act differently in hopes to create a positive upswing sooner. Doing that, can and will backfire on you. When you don’t let things unfold naturally, you will also continue to consciously create even more expectations that actually obstruct your ability to flow. This flow is actually required for any healthy connection. The last thing you want to do is inadvertently create new roadblocks that delay and possibly even destroy your desired outcome. On the flip side, acting in a desperate manner and giving away all of your energy when a situation appears grim does nothing but exacerbate the negative feelings and hold you back from living your life. It’s a lose:lose situation both ways. And let’s face it, if you are told something isn’t likely to work out, there’s a good chance you already knew that. Trust your instincts, too.

In order to make the best use of the information provided, keep yourself empowered. Stop looking so far ahead and pay attention to right now. Be you and run with all of it in a natural way. When you take this approach you’ll start seeing confirmation even sooner. You’ll know you are on the right path. Letting these situations come together at a natural pace also significantly improves the probability that your desired outcome will actually come to be. In other words, roll with it and let it happen. Put the information in your back pocket and stay in the now. You'll thank yourself for it.


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